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Hi, I'm nomdepluum and this is my personal journal. The journal has been here at livejournal for a couple years, but I have been a very poor journalist....as you will see, I wrote a lot -- tons! -- a couple years ago, and then as I calmed down about my life (I guess) I basically stopped. I'm revising this 'welcome note' at my personal website during the Xmas holiday at the end of 2002 just to offer a little update: Basically nothing has changed since the early posts. I am still very happy with my life, still in the same relationship described in the journal, and, yes, still making love 6x per week. A couple years ago I also created a community under the username of AllSexyPeople, and I invite you to visit there. Unfortuately the discussion surroundiing my journal and also around AllSexyPeople tends to orbit around the question of whether I am too focused on sex and/or wrong to revel in my wonderful life. I talk a lot about enjoying sex, and having a great life, and my comments are often explicit. This upsets some readers. Others are also upset that I boldly (?) claim that it is better to be rich, beautiful, slender, sexy, healthful and happy than to be otherwise (poor, ugly, fat, repellent, sick, and sad), and that my girlfriend and I delight in our health, wealth, great bodies, constant sex, positive spirit, good looks and overall happiness. As you will see in the welcome note at AllSexyPeople, there seems to be a widespread feeling that it's okay to bemoan your sufferings and seek solace amongst other journal readers, but not okay to stand up and say "My life is great! I'm getting what I want out of life! I don't have any problems! Here is what I value, and what makes me happy! " -- which is what I do in my journal, simply because that's the way my life is. Critics here often say "It's not true," "You're a liar," and also offer all kinds of repellent remarks. I just leave them all here but I really think they damage the ambiance. I write in my journal when I'm experiencing delight. The journal helps me to understand myself better. I write, and through writing, delve into my situation, and there I refine it and perfect it. That's what my journal is for me. For example, it was through journal writing that I realized that my girlfriend and I need to have an agreement about sex. You'll read about it in the journal. We never think about that agreement anymore. It never enters our minds, BUT: We do always have sex six times per week, which is what the agreement guarantees. The agreement, though now forgotten, has become an important source of happiness for us -- all thanks to the journal, where I took time to think about what was 'wrong' at one point, and reached conclusions that I then acted on and implemented. Well I hope you are among those who enjoy my journal and please know that I wish you well.

Here is the welcome page from AllSexyPeople written almost two years ago...perhaps you'd like to pay a visit there as well...

WELCOME...TO ALL SEXY PEOPLE! Hello. I am nomdepluum, host and chairman of the All Sexy People community. I created this community on Monday, April 16, 2001 after spending the better part of two days here at livejournal.com looking for a place where what I call "sexy people" might congregate. Good-looking, healthy, successful, sexually-active people who have high self-esteem, feel good about themselves, and have the means, the brains, and the volition to see to it that they enjoy their lives. I found no such place, so I opened one, and you've found it.

All Sexy People is for people who are happy with themselves and enjoying their lives to the fullest in every sense, including regular enjoyment of the natural human activity of sexual intercourse. Of course we'll talk about lots of other things too. We are people who are 'living the good life.'

If you are longing for a good sexual relationship but have not succeeded in creating one yet I'm not sure you will enjoy this window very much, because I'm hoping that those who post here will be speaking mainly of their successes rather than their longings -- in sex, and in all things. This is a place for the ebullient ones, the happy ones, the people who are feeling fulfilled sexually, as well as generally, in their lives. Misery may love company, but misery will, I hope, not find much company here.

So what is a "sexy person?"

1. You look good. You are naturally attractive.

2. You have a high level of self-esteem and are not depressed.

3. You are healthy and in great shape, not overweight. 3. You THINK about looking and feeling good and you TAKE ACTION to make sure you stay that way: Things like exercise, diet, cosmetics, meditation, yoga, Pilates, weights, etc.

4. You are successful. Define that however it is appropriate for you, but please don't come here to moan about your lack of success. This is a place for winners. 5. (This is important!) You are sexually active, you make love frequently, you enjoy sex, and you are openminded about it.

You may be married or single, of any age or gender and have any gender preference. But please remember that in order to be one of those who is in keeping with the spirit of this page, you will be sexually active and sexually happy.

The quintessential example of the type of person who will find this site harmonious with their own spirit is a beautiful person, wealthy, happy, fulfilled in every way, including but not exclusively sexually. Of course you may not be exactly like all this, but the question is, do you have that spirit of success? Are you sexually fulfilled, as it is natural for attractive successful humans to be? If the answer is yes, this is your place.

For my own part I am what is usually referred to as "a jet-setter." I am an American, originally from the midwest but I have spent many years overseas. I live on the upper east side of Manhattan (thinking of moving downtown, though). I am a very successful professional, #1 in in my field and extremely well-known, though not famous to the general population. I have worked in nearly 50 countries and am quite wealthy. I am 51 years old, 6'1" (185cm), weight 185lbs (84kgs) and am in spectacular physical condition.

I am divorced and living with a strikingly beautiful European woman, 16 years younger than I am, a professional dancer, 5'6", (167cm), 115lbs (52kgs) with naturally blonde hair and washboard abs. Every time she comes back to the apartment she is full of stories about all the men who approached her as she was on her way to the post office or whatever. We travel around the world together on business and pleasure and we make love every day. We are extremely happy and have no substantive complaints about our lives or each other.

We're sky-high naturally and we wonder: Where are all the other ones like us? Are we the only two people in the world living so happily, so fully? Perhaps this window will provide the answer to that question.

Welcome...to All Sexy People.

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